Monday, February 3, 2014

Acknowledge when...

(((Written in the spring, 2013)))

Sometimes acknowledging the problem is enough to make it go away.

Scratch that. Most of the time, is what I should have said.

I can know something is wrong and know that I don't like it. I can know that another person and I have an issue. I can know that they know that I know. Ect. And I can go weeks, even years without acknowledging it to them.

That's what I did with this particular person. He and I said a lot to each other. But we also left a whole lot of things unsaid. Guess which of the two drove a wedge between us?

And years later, I'm given another chance. How lovely is that, right?

But I fall into old patterns, we talk about everything, even crazy things that no one ever talks about openly... But we leave out that one subject that matters most.

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